You may be wondering to yourself why I started this blog that just seems like an utter mish mash of seemingly random topics, the bulk of which covers liquors, my views on feminism, the state of Western society reflecting the effects of feminism, dating, relationships, and all that jazz.

Part of it, (or rather a very large part of it), is to have a place in cyberspace for me to sort out my thoughts on various matters that affect me throughout my life and for me to reflect on it, process it, and gloss over parts of my life to see if I can learn something new that I hadn’t before. Part of it is to talk about the things I like (or love) talking about. Part of it is to keep a record of my life just for my personal reference so I can keep track of how much I’ve grown, evolved, and/or maybe even regressed or gone back on things I’ve previously thought of or held as “hard truths” that stood the test of time (or didn’t stand the test of time). And part of it is to give you, the reader, a window into my life in all of its glory as well as its dark times.

My hope is that you might be able to draw something useful from my own personal experiences, my passions, my accomplishments, my thoughts, my frustrations, as well as my failures. That’s the beauty of human life. Choice. Free Will. Conscience. You can decide to use it for positive change in your own life and those around you or you can use it to inflict a whole lot of pain and evil, and bring despair and destruction into the world. Just saying. I do believe that there’s a lot of good in the world. At the same time though, I’m not so naive as to believe that there aren’t a whole lot of evil as well. There is. There’s a lot of it. And it’s going on all around us. All the time.  It’s up to you to decide what you choose to do with the knowledge that you came upon. I’m confident though that despite all the seemingly pessimistic, negative, and dark thoughts I seem to pour out into my personal articles, especially those dealing with feminism, dating, and relationships, that you can see for yourself that I do hold a ray of hope in it all. It’s not all doom and gloom even though I seem to talk about it a lot. I still choose life despite it all. And you should too.

Please feel free to share your thoughts, experiences, and conjectures under any one of my blog posts. I think we can learn from each others experiences and together, we can make this world a better place for everyone, one person at a time, one article at a time, and one comment at a time.

You can learn more about my personal views on dating below:

My Thoughts on the Current Dating Climate

My Understanding of What Dating Was and What It Has Become

My Thoughts on Being Single

My Thoughts on Having Dating Standards

The Lopsided War Known as Dating and What Women Can Do

And you can learn more about my personal views about women below:

Having Women as Friends

Personal Qualities in a Woman

Giving Women and Love a Chance

Lastly, I also touch upon topics in death, personality disorders, controversy & race:

How Death Played a Major Role in my Life

Why Batshit Crazy Women are Drawn to Me

Why I Cherish My Chinese Heritage

Why I Dabble in Controversy


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